Dating Mistakes
5 Things You Should Never Do on a Date
Dating is an exciting opportunity to connect with someone new or deepen your bond with a partner. But even the best-planned date can hit a snag if certain behaviors come into play. To help you avoid any date-night disasters, here are five things you should never do on a date:
1. Constantly Check Your Phone Few things are as off-putting as someone glued to their phone during a date. Whether it’s scrolling through social media or responding to texts, it sends the message that your date isn’t your priority. Show respect and stay present in the moment. You’ll make a better impression and enjoy the experience more.
2. Talk Only About Yourself We get it—you’re interesting, accomplished, and have lots to share! But so does your date. Conversations should be a two-way street. Ask questions, actively listen, and show genuine interest in their stories and opinions. This helps build a stronger connection and keeps the energy flowing.
3. Complain Excessively Everyone needs to vent occasionally, but turning the date into a gripe session about work, traffic, or the service at the restaurant can bring the mood down quickly. Keep things light and positive to create a fun and inviting atmosphere. If you’re having a bad day, try to shift your focus to the good moments unfolding on the date.
4. Get Too Drunk A cocktail or two can loosen up nerves, but overdoing it is never a good idea. Not only can it lead to embarrassing situations, but it might also make your date feel uncomfortable. Moderation is key—you want to stay present and in control.
5. Talk About Exes Bringing up past relationships is one of the quickest ways to create tension on a date. It can make your date feel like you’re not over your ex or that they’re being compared. Keep the conversation focused on getting to know each other and sharing meaningful, present-day experiences.
Dating is all about connection and fun, so keep these tips in mind to ensure your next outing is a success. Need more inspiration for your next date night? Check out our Instagram for the best spots and ideas in Westchester!
